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Sunday. September 7, 2013. Noon.
“Why did you try to kill yourself?” I heard the lady doctor asked.
I was so mesmerized by her beauty that even without my eyeglasses, I could see the outlines of her face.
I realized she was waiting for my answer. “Because I’m fascinated with death?” I blurted out. I was not so sure I heard her right so I remember saying something like that.
“You mean, you believe that when you die you will transform into a ghost?”
I just listlessly nodded. Half of my brain was actually trying to recall the face of the woman beside her. I thought she was my boss. When my head started to ache, I trained my eyes back to the lady doctor.
“Do you know where you are right now?”
“Yes, you’re in Manila. But where exactly?”
“Uh…” I suspected she was testing my wits so I tried to cheat. I looked around and saw a poster. It says “NCMH.”
“NCMH” I confidently said.
“And it stands for?”
I knew it. She was trying to pin me down. She was trying to find reasons to lock me up.
“National Center for Mental Health,” I replied with all the courage I could muster.
“Yes, you’re in a mental hospital. Do you know why you’re here?”
After that question, I vaguely remember how the interrogation went and how my mother, my aunt, my sister, and my cousin replied to all of her questions. I looked at the other desk. There was an old man trying to understand what his daughter was asking him about his case. My mind began to spin in a vortex. I’ll be locked up here. Probably forever.
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Then they escorted me to an empty bed in the Emergency Room ward. I was asked to lie down. My mom sat beside me on a chair, trying to compose herself. She was so worried when I said that it’s okay. That I’ll be fine in the hospital. I even remember trying to get up and fix my bag full of clothes.
Then two nurses came with cotton balls and probably a Betadine solution. They started blotting the blood from my wrist. They also treated my bruises which I supposedly got from wrestling four men who tried to pin me down when I was being hysterical the night before. Then they asked me to open my mouth. They asked me stick out my tongue and immediately placed a large tablet under it. I looked at my sister, who is a nurse, asking if I should keep it in my mouth. She understood and just nodded.
My mom and aunt took turns sitting beside me. I was lying on my bed with my eyes fixed on the ceiling. Then I heard some screaming.
I thought I heard the words I screamed myself earlier that day: “Ayoko naaaaa!!” I wanted to tell everybody what I thought I heard but I just kept my mouth shut for fear that I might not get out of that place if they found out what I was thinking.
Then my mom came in. I noted that they had put the curtains up so that I won’t be able to see the other patients. But it was too late. I already saw how a crazy man in his fifties was being wheeled into the ward and that woman who kept screaming like there’s no tomorrow.
I felt my eyes feeling droopy so I tried sitting up. I didn’t want to fall asleep. So when the lady doctor, who I noted in her ID was a doctor from Veterans Memorial Medical Center, saw me sitting up, she asked me if I was feeling better. I said yes, so she gave a go signal to my mom and sister that I could go home now.
I didn’t believe her, though. I knew she was up for something sinister. That was the last thought I had while being escorted back to the L300.