Want a more awesome love life this 2015? Here are five resolutions you will want to stick to:
5 Love Resolutions Everyone Should Make This 2015
5. Improve your filter for choosing partners.
If there was a lot of drama in your life last 2014 because your family and friends didn’t approve of your partner choices, then you should consider actually listening to them this year.
Family and friends usually want what’s best for you, and part of having a happy love life is about YOU knowing what’s best for you, too. So choose a partner who makes your life better, not worse.
4. Be a happier person, in general.
If people have to ask you if you’re happy (or if they have this doubtful look when you say you are), then you’re probably giving off the vibe that you aren’t.
So, be so happy that even strangers can see it. Besides, a happy you is a more attractive version of you.
3. Get the great guys out of the friend zone.
If you’ve ever told a friend (who you know is attracted to you), “You know, you’re gonna make some lucky girl really happy someday,” and actually meant it, this year might be the time to ask yourself: “Why don’t I give myself the chance to be that lucky and happy girl?” (Especially if your past romantic choices have turned out to be jerks.)
2. Listen to your heart instead of your hurts.
Yes, you’ve been hurt. You’ve been disappointed, betrayed, disillusioned, and heartbroken. However, that doesn’t mean that “love doesn’t work” or that you’re “destined to be alone.” Most likely, it only means: “When I learn the lessons of my mistakes, I’ll no longer have to make them.”
Then, ask your heart if you truly want to be in a relationship… and learn to once again listen for the real answer.
And, of course, the most important love resolution you should make…
1. Improve your dating and relationship skills.
We go to leadership seminars when we want to get promoted (and stay promoted) at work, and attend financial investment seminars when we want to make more money outside of work. Don’t your relationship skills deserve the same upgrade from you?
The good news is that there are workshops now that teach better dating and connecting skills. One such workshop is “Siren Training”, which starts this January and has modules delivered online (so it matches even the busiest of schedules). It’s for women who are tired of hearing they’re “intimidating,” or are always seen as just “a good friend.” Most especially, it’s for women who want to level up their love lives, and are ready to use the proven skills that make it happen.
If you have time for Facebook each week, then you can learn to “re-discover your inner Siren” at www.SirenTraining.com .
In the end, your 2015 can be better, or worse, or the same as, or way more awesome than 2014.
It will all depend on what you do, and what you’re willing to try. 🙂
Aileen Santos is a Relationship Coach & A-ha! Trainer who helps smart, single men & women find & grow Real Love.
Join her upcoming online workshop for women who want more love in their lives:
https://www.SirenTraining.com
It's a 4-month life changing workshop that starts in January 2015, so sign up now.
5 Love Resolutions Everyone Should Make This 2015
5 Love Resolutions Everyone Should Make This 2015
Want a more awesome love life this 2015? Here are five resolutions you will want to stick to:
5 Love Resolutions Everyone Should Make This 2015
5. Improve your filter for choosing partners.
If there was a lot of drama in your life last 2014 because your family and friends didn’t approve of your partner choices, then you should consider actually listening to them this year.
Family and friends usually want what’s best for you, and part of having a happy love life is about YOU knowing what’s best for you, too. So choose a partner who makes your life better, not worse.
4. Be a happier person, in general.
If people have to ask you if you’re happy (or if they have this doubtful look when you say you are), then you’re probably giving off the vibe that you aren’t.
So, be so happy that even strangers can see it. Besides, a happy you is a more attractive version of you.
3. Get the great guys out of the friend zone.
If you’ve ever told a friend (who you know is attracted to you), “You know, you’re gonna make some lucky girl really happy someday,” and actually meant it, this year might be the time to ask yourself: “Why don’t I give myself the chance to be that lucky and happy girl?” (Especially if your past romantic choices have turned out to be jerks.)
2. Listen to your heart instead of your hurts.
Yes, you’ve been hurt. You’ve been disappointed, betrayed, disillusioned, and heartbroken. However, that doesn’t mean that “love doesn’t work” or that you’re “destined to be alone.” Most likely, it only means: “When I learn the lessons of my mistakes, I’ll no longer have to make them.”
Then, ask your heart if you truly want to be in a relationship… and learn to once again listen for the real answer.
And, of course, the most important love resolution you should make…
1. Improve your dating and relationship skills.
We go to leadership seminars when we want to get promoted (and stay promoted) at work, and attend financial investment seminars when we want to make more money outside of work. Don’t your relationship skills deserve the same upgrade from you?
The good news is that there are workshops now that teach better dating and connecting skills. One such workshop is “Siren Training”, which starts this January and has modules delivered online (so it matches even the busiest of schedules). It’s for women who are tired of hearing they’re “intimidating,” or are always seen as just “a good friend.” Most especially, it’s for women who want to level up their love lives, and are ready to use the proven skills that make it happen.
If you have time for Facebook each week, then you can learn to “re-discover your inner Siren” at www.SirenTraining.com .
In the end, your 2015 can be better, or worse, or the same as, or way more awesome than 2014.
It will all depend on what you do, and what you’re willing to try. 🙂
Happy New Year everybody!
5 Love Resolutions Everyone Should Make This 2015
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Aileen Santos is a Relationship Coach & A-ha! Trainer who helps smart, single men & women find & grow Real Love. Join her upcoming online workshop for women who want more love in their lives: https://www.SirenTraining.com It's a 4-month life changing workshop that starts in January 2015, so sign up now.