READ: Nico Bolzico Schools Us On Why People in Relationships Shouldn’t Get Jealous

Nico Bolzico’s Instagram account is always filled with relationship advice – and we absolutely love him for it. From advice on “the red season” to the beauty of low maintenance relationships, we love how he talks about each situation with wit and humor, and in the most relatable way. This time, he talks about jealousy.

In his Instagram post today, Nico talks about how beautiful his wife, Solenn Heussaff, is and then segues into the topic of… JEALOUSY. Nico admits that he used to get very jealous before meeting Solenn. “I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes,” he admits. “But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong!” He then points out that thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship.

He continues: “The truth (The #BolzTruth) is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn’t be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys. They should be able have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends. If you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day!”

Read his full post here:

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As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes. Look again, she is not showing the middle finger! In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy. This is always a tricky situation and the way we react can be very critical for the future of our relationship and physical health. Before meeting @Solenn, I used to get very jealous; I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes. But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong! Thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship. The truth (The #BolzTruth) is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn’t be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys; except if that other guy is @erwan, then you should be worry, too much sexyness there, irresistible for any human being. I understand that we see our wives as the most beautiful and precious person in our life (if you think different, then go check rule #254 of the #BulliedHusbandClub hand book) and might be difficult seeing them talking to another guy; but it is ok, they should be able have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends (If your #Wifezilla thinks differently then she is right, you shouldn’t be able to have female friends). Summarizing, if you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day! Disclaimer: as usual, these are my words based on what I believed and experienced, as usual I can be wrong; and, if by any means, what I write, say or even think, is not in line with my wife opinion, then my wife opinion should predominate and everything else was wrong, even if that means contradicting, math, physics, gravity, supreme justice or the Pope, she is right; and that my friends, is the Rule #560 of the #BulliedHusdbandsClub hand book.

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Are you the jealous type? Time to change those ways!






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