One of the toughest challenges of being in a relationship is when you begin to suspect your partner of cheating. It starts with them being “busy at work.” Then they start going on strange trips out of town. His or her nickname for you may change, and you notice that he or she is becoming forgetful. After that, you start being suspicious of everything.
This guy is starting to suspect his girlfriend of cheating on him. For some reason, he decided to post his message seeking for help on a buy and sell page on Facebook. Maybe you can help him out? Here’s his message:
Kailangan ko ng advice. Palagi ko kasing napapansin ang girlfriend ko na may kausap sa phone, pero pag lumalapit na ko, binababa niya kagad. Tapos lagi siyang late umuwi, pero pag tinatanong ko kung bakit siya ginagabi, nago-overtime daw sila sa trabaho. Pero nung chineck ko yung payslip niya, wala naman siyang overtime pay na nakukuha, sabi pa ng supervisor niya, minsan pa nga daw uma-absent siya.
(I need advice. I notice that my girlfriend is always on the phone, but every time I come near her, she drops the call right away. And she always comes home late. But when I ask her, she says she has to work overtime. When I check her payslips, she has no overtime pay. Her supervisor even said that sometimes she doesn’t come in to work.)
According to him, his girlfriend even makes excuses:
Minsan, nagpapaalam siya na may teambuilding daw sa company nila, two days siya dun. Okay lang naman na sumama siya, kaya lang napansin ko na panay na yata ang teambuilding nila, twice a month!
(Sometimes, she tells me that her company has a teambuilding activity for two days. It’s fine that she goes, but I noticed that her company does teambuildings twice a month!)
That’s when he began to really suspect. He decided to follow her…
Habang nakasakay ako sa Mitsubishi GSR ko, medyo malayo ang lugar ko para di nila ko mahalata. Nakita ko na may sumundo sa kanyang lalaki. Para wag nila ko mapansin, nagpatay ako ng makina.
(While I was in my Mitsubishi GSR, I watched from afar so they wouldn’t notice. I saw that a guy picked her up. So they wouldn’t see me, I didn’t start the engine.)
This is where he needs your advice:
Nung susundan ko na ulit sila, pagpihit ko, ayaw na mag-start ng GSR ko. Help naman, ano ba problema ng GSR ko? Spark plug ba yun o sa battery? Medyo mahirap din siya start pag malamig ang panahon. Patulong.
(When I was going to follow them again, my GSR wouldn’t start. Help, what’s my GSR’s problem? Is it the spark plug or the battery? It also won’t start when the weather’s cold. Help!)
What do you think is the problem? Share your thoughts below!
